so me and the ex haven't seen each other is half a year, till today, we went out had lunch in it was a good time, we hit a few spots."looking at joes", but i feel nothing there but she still dose, the reason we broke up was her mom, do to an age difference, but now she no longer lives with her mom, but i still dint feel that love for her.so, the big question here, is it right to start dating her again or is it wrong? i made it a point to never go back with ex"s. and i told her this for a long time, but today i guess it was a date or something like that.? maybe?? i don't know what to do, she thinks were back together but i don't feel that love for her no more, so i told her will take it nice and slow, right move or wrong move??

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If you don't feel anything romantically toward her, then tell her that straight up. If she can't or won't understand where your coming from, then its best to put an end to it completely-no 'hanging out'-until you've both moved on to find happiness with others.

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she wont let go.;

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Hit it and quit it Dude!

Seriously, Gen Scar's advice is aces.

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Some people, when trying to avoid thinking about those things that cause them pain, turn to drink, or perhaps food, or drugs... I turn not to any of those... I collect action figures, turning my mind to the hunt, so that I might find a mote of peace... Over the years, I've found that alcoholism is much more socially acceptable by far.

Prudence is entirely correct. If the love isn't there, let her know, then you can both get on with your lives. Leading her on will only hurt her more. Tell her now, she'll get over it.

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"The future's uncertain and the end is always near." - The Doors "Roadhouse Blues".

I would just ask her what she is expecting from the relationship. I have dated women that were done with me but wanted to keep it going because they didn't want o sleep with strange/other people. So we were just friends with benefits. then there some that get attached and don't want to let go. let em know as nice and careful as possible that its never gonna go anywhere and that as mature adults both of yah have to just end it. if so then end it don't lead her on by still seeing here or sleeping with her quit it for good! scarlet is on the money man if there aint no love then theres nothing! hope my two cents helps! DD

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Who hadn't a friend like this?

Being serious now Bravo, you have to look inside you and ask what made you go out with her. Mabe you still love her and is just confuse. If that's true, go on, give a chance for both of you. If not, let her go. You'll be hurt as much as she will.

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Sounds like you can move on, she can't. As GS said, let her know that you just can't do it. And you might have to tell her over and over and over again.

I am the last person to give advice about girls, I am 28 and have a lot of girlfriends and I dont understand them at all. I know why guys say and do the things we say and do, but girls confuse me like the Terminator timeline.