Hey, just a heads up to everyone.

I'm going thru SERIOUS marital problems (again). This time, Emi has put her foot down. I am currently looking for a place to live (w/ a buddy from work). I assume that it all starts w/ separation and then ends in divorce.

I love my Thomas. Emi will continue to take care of him M-Th and I will be with the snuggybug F-Sun. I have been allowed use of the house while I take care of him. He means everything to me.

This decision is most likely, best for both of us. Long story short, our personalities are too different and Emi's beliefs in how things tend to work are different than, well, most people's. We believe that it is better for the boys for us to go our separate ways rather than stay together and be on a rocky road.

I will be more available to chat on the weekends (F-Sun) than the weekdays. There will be a time when I won't have a computer (good lord, the library AGAIN???). If things work out right, I might be able to afford a computer if I can be strict w/ my spending and savings.

Alan1, that discussion I had w/ you about 'losing your kids' had NOTHING to do with this situation. Just letting ya know.

Thanks everyone for your support.