Hey Bravo,

I'm new around here and I don't know a whole lot about the situation and history, but I did read your previous post and this recent update. I felt compelled to write to try and offer support for you and your ex.
First off, congratulations on following your gut and trying to do the right thing. I think your plan of staying away from her is probably for the best. Second, if you somehow get dragged back into relating with her, I suggest you tell her the following :
"I don't love you. You need to take time to work out some issues yourself so you can become someone that I, or someone else, could fall in love with. Try and be strong and get the help that you need. When we meet again I hope you're in a better situation in life."

Good luck,

Snake

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