Graham, Dude, Like these guys are tellin ya, walk away and pay no heed. You don't know how many times I've been dumped by girls who use the other "f" word (Friend) only to watch them shack up with some guy who beats them and treats them like crap! One girl I knew did just that. She has 4 kids by this bum, lives in a trailer without heat, gets welfare and has about 1/2 her teeth knocked out. The Bum she was married to lives with some other chick, comes over when the welfare check comes and beats it out of her. He gets part time jobs everytime he needs enough cash to fix up his bike, but like her, has no future. And she STILL thinks he loves her!

And man, that's just ONE girl I dated....I love going home on leave and seeing these chicks I dated married to bums and the farthest they have gotten from that bum-F**K town is Rochester or Buffalo. I've been all over the world. Seen crap that will NEVER see. I've got a nice car, two smart, kind and good kids, a beautiful wife who loves me....man, it don't get any better. Like LowJacked said...the best revenge is to live your life!