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Originally Posted by rds13601
If you thought I blew it out of proportion, tough. I don't like women being disrespected period. This isn't general scarlett ender. This is a 4o year old man. My personal feeling is people are just trying to make in this world. When someone yells at a slow driver while going to work it might be the slow driver isn't intentionally pissing you off but trying to juggle his hectic lifestyle in his head with no thought of what he's doing ahead of you. Give people the benefit of the doubt. Be understanding!! When someone tells me their upset at what she saw and was crying. Was that cool? I am a hothead. No doubt about that. Scarlett said some nice things to me about my mom's terminal situation. I cherish those sentiments!!! When someone is nice to me and feels hurt; well I consider that wrong. That's how I roll. As for the clique issue,prove it; show me it isn't by welcoming Scarlett's new pictures and not giving her grief about what went down. She didn't tell me to do anything. I took it upon myself; like I would for my family or my friends. That comes from facing a violent history and bad health. My perspective on life is different cuz life has shaped me that way. Drop the bad sentiments toward her and welcome her back as a contributor. Hate me; but don't hate her. Ban me if you like. Just don't take it out on her. That'll show me the character of you guys!!!
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What of my invite to speak with you off joe dios? On msn or through email I havent had a response from you?
I can't sit here and scruitinize you for protectiong G.S not in such a brash manner, and especially when I've been guilty of the same action in the past.
As far as character goes, nobody here is out to proove anything, Lehsreh said everything that has to be said on the matter, apart from the fact that we all like to do our very best with our work.
As for yourself and G.S welcoming you back, it's both your own decisions to leave, Hammerfel didn't ban you and we didnt say you wasn't welcome, the decisions to leave were but your own..
I've commented on General Scarlett's work, collaborations usually between hereself and Flint.. and i find most of her work fantastic.
I really am bemused by your apparent lack of knowledge on the whole situation, only the other day I was on MSN, telling G.S that she should return to Joe Dios, so she loses her mod status.. what really does that mean? It doesn't mean she can't take photos and contribute to the site, she's still a valued member, as are you and all of the lurkers that read the forums.
Any feedback given on photos is done so that it helps the original contributor, like i said from the outset, people need to know a few things..
1. We're all friends.
2. We're going to argue and disagree, friends have differing opinions.
3. We're eventually going to make up and carry on doing great work.
Again.. I will say it publicly.. RDS13601 & General Scarlett are welcome here at Joe Dios!! I was really pleased to see that Pru picked up on the Weekend Warriors Unlikely Heroes Project, something that she has started with a passion and hopefully we can all contribute to bring a great story line with great pictures.
My kindest Regards
Rich.