If you thought I blew it out of proportion, tough. I don't like women being disrespected period. This isn't general scarlett ender. This is a 4o year old man. My personal feeling is people are just trying to make in this world. When someone yells at a slow driver while going to work it might be the slow driver isn't intentionally pissing you off but trying to juggle his hectic lifestyle in his head with no thought of what he's doing ahead of you. Give people the benefit of the doubt. Be understanding!! When someone tells me their upset at what she saw and was crying. Was that cool? I am a hothead. No doubt about that. Scarlett said some nice things to me about my mom's terminal situation. I cherish those sentiments!!! When someone is nice to me and feels hurt; well I consider that wrong. That's how I roll. As for the clique issue,prove it; show me it isn't by welcoming Scarlett's new pictures and not giving her grief about what went down. She didn't tell me to do anything. I took it upon myself; like I would for my family or my friends. That comes from facing a violent history and bad health. My perspective on life is different cuz life has shaped me that way. Drop the bad sentiments toward her and welcome her back as a contributor. Hate me; but don't hate her. Ban me if you like. Just don't take it out on her. That'll show me the character of you guys!!!