What can I say? I've a 4 year old and he NEVER, NEVER touched my Joes without permission. He ask and take them in hands and even help me carry Joes and vehicles around. I try to let him join me in the hobby.
And when I got outdoors I always look for places where isn't a lot of people. Most of the ones around look and don't say nothing. And I really don't care, I the one who pay my bills.
I need to look for outdoors shot since I have not the same ability as Frank or others to build cool sets.
I can say do what please you more, take your wife and kids with you and look for a place where the four of you can stay alone, like a picnic and take some moments for your dio shots

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